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May 8Liked by Tania Weatherley

Wow, that must be so difficult and such a heavy mental load on a daily basis. Sending you a hug.

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May 7Liked by Tania Weatherley

I am at a complete loss for words here. I am so sorry. 😔 What a story.

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May 7Liked by Tania Weatherley

Wow, Tania. First, I'd like to think you for mentioning my post. I'm honored that you included it. Your piece is instructive. It offers a clear-eyed look, from a similar perspective. We're not making this up! My IBS symptoms were so extreme, I had to tone them down for the article because they seemed so over-the-top. It's hard - as you know! - to walk into a party, or go to someone's house for dinner, or to a restaurant, and not be able to eat a single thing on my plate or on the menu. You really nailed that. People would comment on how thin I was, thinking they were complimenting me. I'd smile and thank them, thinking You have absolutely no clue that my body is trying to kill me. And it nearly succeeded in doing so. Who doesn't like cake, indeed. Well, cake is pretty, and it smells nice, and I know you went to a lot of trouble and I don't want to offend you but spending half an hour on the toilet is not my idea of a good time. It isn't the best way to make friends.

I've never heard of CSID. It may be something that's not widely known about in the U.S. I will have to check into it.

It's so interesting that meat, eggs, oils, and fats are among the few foods I can tolerate with no symptoms. (Except for coconut oil, and coconut in general.) I buy lactose-free everything, but I'm wondering if there's something besides lactose in dairy products that causes symptoms. Food is just a mystery to me. Like you, I am still thin, despite a high-calorie diet and a fairly sedentary lifestyle. I simply do not gain weight. I wish I could.

I love your AI cakes. The first picture, in particular, reminds me of an alien hellscape. And those weird fruits in the second one! How utterly strange.

It means a great deal to me that you mentioned my post. I'm moved when people find something in my story that speaks to them on a personal level. That's the main reason I'm here on Substack: to connect. Thank you for connecting.

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I'm so glad you read and enjoyed my post and happy that my words can resonate with others like you who go through these digestive issues. Absolutely have a look into CSID. It may not be your affliction but if it does end up being the case, I hope getting more answers will help you as much as it helped me. Also I absolutely love your writing and so glad to connect too😊

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Thank you, Tania! You’re very kind. I’m definitely going to check into this condition. Answers are hard to come by. This might just be the thing.🙏

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I really hate it when people can't stop making comments about other people's bodies. You've been going through a lot, Tania. Thank you for raising awareness about IBS ❤️

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Thanks Everly ❤️

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May 7Liked by Tania Weatherley

Wow, you have been through a lot, Tania. 💛Thanks for sharing your story! And I love the obscure AI art! 😆

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Thanks Jenn ❤️ I couldn't help myself with the AI art, it's too fun 🤣

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